Did you ever saw this movie, Anger Management, which is directed by Peter Segal on 2003. Yeah! I do admit it was well-known few years ago but not now.However i think i am just the same as the main actor, Sandler, who wrongly sentenced to the anger-management program, where he met the aggressive instructor.
For those who doesn't know about the movie. This is the trailer. And i am just like Adam Sandler in the trailer.
Ever since i had failed my A-level for the second times. I had a bad temper. Yes! I admit i do have short temper since i was born! But it is much more worst now! I used to control my temper by telling myself not to get mad and calm myself down with some deep breath or chill myself down with some water during secondary school.
Now? Well... I am just like a land mine. Whoever who piss me off will have a piece of me ASAP! I have a little friends just because of this. XD! Well, I nearly take a guy down during the photo session of my university if my other friend didn't gap a hold on me. And few weeks ago, i just scolded a girl from my lecture in front of the fellow classmates and the lecture as the girl was enjoying criticize the lecturer's mistake. It end up the lecture have to chill us both down.
I wonder did you ever curse a lot when driving? I mean when the other road users are very selfish and drive recklessly? Frankly, i curse everyday just because of the cyclist around my campus who ignored the cars totally!
Worst of all, I had now started to swear in front of my girl friend. I never did that! I used to think that swearing in front of her or in the phone with her is a rude thing to do.I dont like this! I just cant control myself.Even my best friend, Kok Loong, had came all the way from Kuala Lumpur to Kampar to advice me not to swear in front of girls due to complains from his step-sister, who is in UTAR too! He told me that i wasn't like that during our old days.
SIGH! I just changed. Changed into someone even worst and worst! I hope to overcome this weakness. I could hardly imagine what will happen to me when i am working after graduation. Scolded the boss just because he criticize me? I will be Doom ! And I too wish to get better to maintain good relationship with my girlfriend. I don't want to fight with her just because of my hot temper.If anyone who had such experience like me, willing to share his/her story with me, i will be very glad! Please do leave me some comment!
9 comments:
People change as time goes by. Dont let that get you down. Some people curse but dont mean it in a bad way, they just curse because they are used to cursing. Its better to stop now because its not a very nice habit. Sounds like you were a bit mean to that girl for criticizing the lecturer. Maybe next time you can go to her after class and advise her and not scold her in front of the class. Just my advise. Hey no ones perfect.
@Anonymous:
Yeah! I too regarded to scold her in front of the lecture. I know no one is perfect. However my temper one day will cause trouble if goes ignored. XD!
I think it's great you realise you have a temper. I suggest next time when you're really angry, just bite your bottom lip hard and walk away. Not saying anything is better than swearing at people.
I used to have a very hot temper as a girl but I started doing that... now if you know me, you wouldn't guess I was like that! XD... Try hard... cos it's quite hard for ur gf I think... my ex was very hot-tempered too ><
Good luck to you! =)
control your temp lo.
know your temp d.
change it.
when angry say show ur madness out will make the thing worst.
change it lo
bad temp will just like ur father + mother + someone.. ^^
know la har..
we have to be strong enough when we stay outside alone.
everything is getting worst and worst.
but is life!
this is wat we have to go through.
the days we have had will end.. future coming!! look forward to be a better man/boy. know?
life like this~
i cant control my anger!
i will curse as well!
den few days later guilt overtakes me,its sucks:9
Hi, it has been a long long time since v last met. So how r u bro?? Seem like many things go against u recently. Well, life maybe hard sometimes but do accept the challenge of it. Although i just know u for 1 years and 3 month. I knew that u r very responsible and caring bout others. Perhaps u can try do some activities that u like in order to reduce/release ur anger. Hope u'll cope with it soon~ It's never too late to do anything but it's too late when nothing is done~
It has been quite long time since v last met. So how r u bro?? Seem like things go against u recently. Life is hard sometimes but do accept the challenge of it. Frankly speaking, although i just knew u for 1 year and 3 months. U r a very good friend, kind and responsible. Indeed, a very good buddy to rely on. Perhaps u could try to manage ur anger by doing some activities u prefer. Maybe it could help u release the stress of the anger. Well, it's never too late to do anything, it's too late when nothing is done. Wishes u all the best always buddy!!!
@Cai Hong: Is good to feel guilt. At least you feel that you are wrong. However, i sometimes proud of my mistake... i know i am not normal..XD!
@Yi Zuo: Life been busy n tired here! I am also trying to change myself. To be someone more polite n less temper... but is not easy.. How is things there?
Well, just started my 4th sem and the things get tougher as usual. Going to have my 1st assessment next week. Hope that can pass thru more 2 years lah. Not easy to be a class rep also de. Haha~ I'm the third youngest in the class but they choose me as the class rep. The things go quite well lah. Just make a little little changes at a time then things will get better loh. Suddenly change will scared the ppl around u de. Haha~
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